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Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 7th, 2023, 4:41 pm
by Falcon
synthcrow wrote: September 7th, 2023, 3:24 pm I'm a transgenderqueer genderfluid demisexual demiromantic polyamorous pan lesbian, enough things that it's easier to just summarize it as "I'm queer". my sense of gender is pretty incomprehensible but can be summed up as "bird"
FR i just like to use queer to describe my gender and relationships at this point ahaha its such a useful term

i am just. i am just a dragon with lots of love but not sexual if that makes sense

Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 8th, 2023, 6:27 am
by dazzlingdragon
So many aspec people here!

I’m somewhere one the asexual spectrum personally! I’ve toyed with the microlabel “aegosexual” and also identify as panromantic with an aesthetic preference for feminine and androgynous people. I generally just tell people “I’m gay” when they ask though, because I think in practice currently I’m almost indistinguishable from a lesbian ^_^’

Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 8th, 2023, 7:13 am
by Neververy4
dazzlingdragon wrote: September 8th, 2023, 6:27 am! I’ve toyed with the microlabel “aegosexual”
Hey I haven't seen that term before, what is Aegosexual? Genuine question, I mean no harm

Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 8th, 2023, 9:14 am
by dazzlingdragon
Neververy4 wrote: September 8th, 2023, 7:13 am Hey I haven't seen that term before, what is Aegosexual? Genuine question, I mean no harm
First of all, no offense taken! It’s not a well-known or frequently-discussed subset of the ace community.

I’ve seen it often described as a sort of disconnect between one’s self and sexual arousal/activity. Better defined here, (CW for allusions/references to mature activities, but there is no graphic content) https://sexuality.fandom.com/wiki/Aegosexuality

I’m not sure how well the label fits me currently, but hanging out with aegos has helped me grow a lot more comfortable with certain aspects of myself, so I’m a little emotionally attached to it, I ‘spose xD

Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 9th, 2023, 2:13 pm
by IgneousCroc
Boom-ska-doom! As aroace as they come, baybee!

That's the short of it, wanna hear the long?

Loveless Non-partnering Touch-repulsed attraction-based-dysmorphia Romance-repulsed Sex-repulsed YOU-repulsed (ahm jokin'~) aromantic asexual!
Tldr: DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT, CHUMP!

As for gender.... eh. Anything people aren't attracted to. Any pronouns fine!

Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 9th, 2023, 3:25 pm
by pheelthemoment
hmm...i always feel weird talking about my own identity tbh dsafsd just lots of vague and 'contradictory' feelings. i think my most full description would be genderfluid transfem aspec gay bear C: tend to prefer they/them pronouns but i also do like people just not knowing/guessing haha. in general just 'gay/nonbinary' works for short asdfasd

Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 9th, 2023, 4:16 pm
by deadmansparty
im nonbinary and go by they/them and vie/vem/vir pronouns!

that pretty much it for labels ive recently realized i dont like labels much for myself. id definitely say im on the ace and aro spectrums. speaking off lots of aces and aros on this thread hell yeah :ace: :aro: :cool:

Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 9th, 2023, 7:46 pm
by Falcon
:rainbow: :dr_green: :aro: :ace: Aroace-ness and dragons go hand in hand! Er-claw and claw!!

I don’t have any partners but I do know I’d like one+ someday :,)

Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 14th, 2023, 7:36 am
by Dragonmomma
Wow, everyone here is so cool and unique :3

I'm Pansexual/MTF Transgender! Been on HRT since February of this year!

I'm very lax with pronouns though, even though my changes are happening rapidly I still get sir'ed all the time XD. Any pronouns work fine with me, but she/her makes me smile :)

Re: lgbt topic

Posted: September 20th, 2023, 10:43 pm
by Ehksidian
well, i'm in a system but me specifically? i'm just a trans lesbian lmao. i like girls and i am one, p basic. used to consider myself acespec in some way but after starting hrt and being on it for a year it's absolutely just a "wow this body sucks and i hate it" feeling that made me feel that way.